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Ten reasons not to date a married man

There are no positive reasons for dating a married man.
Even the good reasons don’t stand the test of time and
turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas’ clothing. After a
brief reasearch on why ladies get involved with married
men it was discovered that most times this ladies go after
married men because they are rich, compared to their
broke boyfriend. They are more caring, for they know how
to take care of them and they are always there for them.
They have security and connection through this men. But
ask yourself if its really worth it, losing your pride and
dignity for something so lowly and vain.
A woman with even an ounce of pride would NEVER share
someone else’s husband. If you find yourself on the brink
of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap:
1. It is so wrong
Of all the reasons not to get involved with a married man,
the primary one has to be this: it’s just plain wrong. Both
a married man and his girlfriend can come up with all
sorts of reasons to justify what they’re doing – it’s real
love, his wife doesn’t treat him right, etc. Those are
excuses but cheating is never right, and a person with
dignity just wouldn’t be part of it.Getting involved with a
married man is so wrong even for all the right reasons.
Society frowns at it, God detests fornication, and you
aren’t being fair to even yourself.
2. He is the winner
He’s got his cake and is eating it, too. He has a legitimate
married relationship that helps his public persona and he
has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what he’s
missing in his marriage.He can spend his days with you
and his nights with his wife; if you ask us, he is very
blessed. When he is tired of you, he can move on with no
strings attached, and don’t think he won’t. If he could do
that to someone to whom he is legally bound, what will he
do to you who only has his words? He is the one who is
being hailed by his friends as “the really big man” while
you are the husband- snatcher. He wins, for while his
morale is always high, yours will be low, for you will have
no dignity or pride again.
3. He won’t leave her for you
We don’t care how many promises he made to you, don’t
expect him to leave her and come marry you. So you can
start preparing yourself for a heartbreak when he moves
on to someone else who is just as naïve. And yes he’ll find
someone sweeter, shapelier and better than you ever are.
pity you, he goes home to his wife, you go home wishing
he it had lasted forever.
4. He might not be who you think he is
We hear stories about how some girls were used for ritual
sacrifice, it isnt a day that the act is perpetuated, the
married man could have kept stuffing the girl with money
and food, like a broiler waiting for the day he’ll slaughter
her for money ritual. But of course he wouldnt use his
wife. You don chop, come die, funny. Besides you will
never know for sure where he is, what he is doing, and
who he is doing it with. There is always two sides to every
story and unfortunately, you will never know any other
side but his.
5. You’ll always be his little secret
No one can know about you. Not family, not respectable
friends, you can’t go out with him in public because you
just might get caught either by his family or yours. Plain
and simple, he doesn’t want anybody to know about you
for the fear of making himself look bad.Prepare for a hide-
and-seek affair. You really can’t call what you are having
a relationship, think of it more like a hide and seek
game.And hiding can be exhausting, having to keep your
relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and
cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of
a relationship. Walking together freely and radiantly
through the world can fill you with the glow of being with
someone who is proud to be with you. So why even
bother?
6. Lose his respect and it’s over
It is pretty obvious that immediately you accept his offer,
his respect for you is gone. because he is thinking “she’s
after my money” so the likeness reduces and you become
his little puppet, he’ll start stringing you around. So even
though he’s the one who pursued you, even though he’s
the one that made it difficult to say “No.” And even
though he tells you how wonderful you are. At some level,
he’s going to have trouble respecting you for settling for
such a flawed relationship. Watch it, so he wont wash you
7. You’re kidding yourself
Despite that he tells you he loves you, reassuring you how
much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship
with his wife and coming into your arms speaks for itself,
you are a second best. A mediocre, and you are worth
having fun with but not marrying. If such is the case why
settle for less when you can go for your type.
8. Time is too precious to waste
Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older?
And so matter how you try you will look older, especially
since you are dating an older man, fact. Because it’s
convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married
man can go on for a long time, it will therrefore deter you
from having a serious relationship. And omo! before you
know it you have eaten up the precious time you might
have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of
flourishing with an old man.
9. Loyalty is not one of his strong points
Obviously. If he can cheat on her{his wife}, he would do it
to you. He made a vow when he married her and he clearly
couldn’t follow through with it. What would make you
think you’re any different than her? Infact your stand is
even worse for you have no legal backing. I’m sure you do
know this, yes?
10. Beware it can boomerang
There is no fool proof in cheating, even though you have
all the sides covered and a schedule to keep your
activities secret, remember “everyday is for the thief and
one day is for the owner” but omo! that one day go brutal
die, when the madam of the oga you have been sharing
catch you pants down. Heh! heh! you will cry tears will
not come and you’ll receive public disgrace and be
humilited. And its funny that many men (and women)
have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their
deceitful actions. Human nature finds it easier to blame
than to accept shame. If he is caught by his wife or
conscience, don’t be surprised if he tries to blame you and
get you to take the fall.

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Ten reasons not to date a married man

There are no positive reasons for dating a married man.
Even the good reasons don’t stand the test of time and
turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas’ clothing. After a
brief reasearch on why ladies get involved with married
men it was discovered that most times this ladies go after
married men because they are rich, compared to their
broke boyfriend. They are more caring, for they know how
to take care of them and they are always there for them.
They have security and connection through this men. But
ask yourself if its really worth it, losing your pride and
dignity for something so lowly and vain.
A woman with even an ounce of pride would NEVER share
someone else’s husband. If you find yourself on the brink
of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap:
1. It is so wrong
Of all the reasons not to get involved with a married man,
the primary one has to be this: it’s just plain wrong. Both
a married man and his girlfriend can come up with all
sorts of reasons to justify what they’re doing – it’s real
love, his wife doesn’t treat him right, etc. Those are
excuses but cheating is never right, and a person with
dignity just wouldn’t be part of it.Getting involved with a
married man is so wrong even for all the right reasons.
Society frowns at it, God detests fornication, and you
aren’t being fair to even yourself.
2. He is the winner
He’s got his cake and is eating it, too. He has a legitimate
married relationship that helps his public persona and he
has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what he’s
missing in his marriage.He can spend his days with you
and his nights with his wife; if you ask us, he is very
blessed. When he is tired of you, he can move on with no
strings attached, and don’t think he won’t. If he could do
that to someone to whom he is legally bound, what will he
do to you who only has his words? He is the one who is
being hailed by his friends as “the really big man” while
you are the husband- snatcher. He wins, for while his
morale is always high, yours will be low, for you will have
no dignity or pride again.
3. He won’t leave her for you
We don’t care how many promises he made to you, don’t
expect him to leave her and come marry you. So you can
start preparing yourself for a heartbreak when he moves
on to someone else who is just as naïve. And yes he’ll find
someone sweeter, shapelier and better than you ever are.
pity you, he goes home to his wife, you go home wishing
he it had lasted forever.
4. He might not be who you think he is
We hear stories about how some girls were used for ritual
sacrifice, it isnt a day that the act is perpetuated, the
married man could have kept stuffing the girl with money
and food, like a broiler waiting for the day he’ll slaughter
her for money ritual. But of course he wouldnt use his
wife. You don chop, come die, funny. Besides you will
never know for sure where he is, what he is doing, and
who he is doing it with. There is always two sides to every
story and unfortunately, you will never know any other
side but his.
5. You’ll always be his little secret
No one can know about you. Not family, not respectable
friends, you can’t go out with him in public because you
just might get caught either by his family or yours. Plain
and simple, he doesn’t want anybody to know about you
for the fear of making himself look bad.Prepare for a hide-
and-seek affair. You really can’t call what you are having
a relationship, think of it more like a hide and seek
game.And hiding can be exhausting, having to keep your
relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and
cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of
a relationship. Walking together freely and radiantly
through the world can fill you with the glow of being with
someone who is proud to be with you. So why even
bother?
6. Lose his respect and it’s over
It is pretty obvious that immediately you accept his offer,
his respect for you is gone. because he is thinking “she’s
after my money” so the likeness reduces and you become
his little puppet, he’ll start stringing you around. So even
though he’s the one who pursued you, even though he’s
the one that made it difficult to say “No.” And even
though he tells you how wonderful you are. At some level,
he’s going to have trouble respecting you for settling for
such a flawed relationship. Watch it, so he wont wash you
7. You’re kidding yourself
Despite that he tells you he loves you, reassuring you how
much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship
with his wife and coming into your arms speaks for itself,
you are a second best. A mediocre, and you are worth
having fun with but not marrying. If such is the case why
settle for less when you can go for your type.
8. Time is too precious to waste
Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older?
And so matter how you try you will look older, especially
since you are dating an older man, fact. Because it’s
convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married
man can go on for a long time, it will therrefore deter you
from having a serious relationship. And omo! before you
know it you have eaten up the precious time you might
have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of
flourishing with an old man.
9. Loyalty is not one of his strong points
Obviously. If he can cheat on her{his wife}, he would do it
to you. He made a vow when he married her and he clearly
couldn’t follow through with it. What would make you
think you’re any different than her? Infact your stand is
even worse for you have no legal backing. I’m sure you do
know this, yes?
10. Beware it can boomerang
There is no fool proof in cheating, even though you have
all the sides covered and a schedule to keep your
activities secret, remember “everyday is for the thief and
one day is for the owner” but omo! that one day go brutal
die, when the madam of the oga you have been sharing
catch you pants down. Heh! heh! you will cry tears will
not come and you’ll receive public disgrace and be
humilited. And its funny that many men (and women)
have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their
deceitful actions. Human nature finds it easier to blame
than to accept shame. If he is caught by his wife or
conscience, don’t be surprised if he tries to blame you and
get you to take the fall.

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